I have been talking to this man, claiming he is in Afghanistan. He says i will have to get a military wife document for $480 so that i will get access to his money and benefits and that we must have that document to get married eventually. I think it sounds funny to pay that kind of money for a document.?? What really requries if you gonna marry an army man and you want him home with you??
To marry anyone, you need to have physically met them - anyone who claims that you will be their wife if you pay a few hundred dollars to buy a bit of paper is scamming you.
Please post the details of this "soldier" that you have been talking to, his name, email address any other email addresses that he has referred you to and an example of some of his emails. This will help the other victims that he is currently chatting to and trying to steal from.