Hey befree...I suggest that you take advantage of the different forums and help they have here on scamwarners to locate and find out if these guys are legit or not. There is a forum on how to tell is he is a scam with urls to follow and trace emails, photos, etc. It is really very interesting...Helped me to pick out a scammer within a few mins of talking to him on messenger. I just googled some of his "poetry" and it came up under another scam artist here on scamwarmers....Good luck! As for me...I deleted all my dating accounts but 2.